Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Doreen Margaret Grote, 87 of Carroll, died Friday, August 15, 2025 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m., Saturday, August 23, 2025 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Kathy Halbur. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jane Boes. Gift Bearers will be Stephanie Jones, Nicole Smith, Hannah Stephens, Haley Stoltz, and Chloe Grote. Casket Bearers will be Tim Pietig, Scott Pietig, Jeff Pietig, Marc Pietig, Benjamin Grote, and Ross Jones. The Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas will form an honor guard for the Funeral Mass. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Friday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. by the Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas. Additional visitation will be from 9-9:45 a.m. on Saturday at the church. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Animal Rescue of Carroll.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Doreen’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Doreen Margaret (Pietig) Grote was born September 10, 1937, in Carroll, IA. Doreen was the daughter of Leonard and Evelyn (Berning) Pietig, she grew up on the family dairy farm just north of Roselle. She was the eldest of four children. She attended St. Angela’s Academy and graduated from Kuemper in 1956.
On September 8,1956 she was united in marriage to her sweetheart John (Jack) Grote at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Roselle, IA. With this union they had three children, Rick, Mike and Joni.

Doreen and Jack moved to Fort Bragg, NC while Jack was enlisted in the U.S. Army. After returning home from North Carolina the couple resided on a farm north of Roselle and then made their final home in Carroll where Jack engaged in farming.

While caring for her family she also worked at Tony’s Restaurant, Brown Derby and Carroll Elks Lodge. Which created several long-term friends and relationships.

Doreen and Jack loved their winters in Mesquite, NV, traveling to Europe and family vacations to New Smyrna Beach, FL.

She loved doing ceramics, macrame, crocheting, cooking, word games, collecting dolls, hummels and going to casinos. She also loved conversations with her grandchildren, learning about their accomplishments and adventures, especially when they sent pictures to her digital picture frame.

Doreen loved her cats (Thomas and Wilbur and any neighborhood feral) and spent most of her time caring for them. Later she was affectionately known as the “Cat Lady”.

Doreen was an active member of St. Lawrence Parish and Catholic Daughters. She also volunteered at St. Anthony’s Hospital Auxiliary.

During the last year Doreen resided at the Regency Park in Carroll where she was taken care of by the wonderful staff.

Left to celebrate Doreen’s life is her children: Rick (Jill) Grote of Carroll, Mike of Carroll, Joni (Clare) O’Rourke of Slater, IA. Seven grandchildren, Patrick, Stephanie (Ross), Nichole, Hannah (Alex), Haley (Ethan), Benjamin and Chloe. Six great-grandchildren, Piper, Colby, Timber, Easton, Shea and Callum. Her sibling William (Judy) Pietig of Glidden. Her sibling in-laws; Joyce Grote of Minooka, IL., John (Jeanne) Rosener of South Sioux City, NE., James (Mary Ann) Grote of Cave Creek, AZ, Bill (Nancy) Grote of Withee, WI., Alice (John) Hamilton of Jefferson. Judy (Duane “Butch”) Olberding of Iowa Falls., Ted (Peggy) Grote of Gibson City, IL. As well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and other extended friends and relatives.

Doreen was preceded in death by her husband, Jack in 2020, her parents Leonard and Evelyn, her parent in-laws Herman and Colette Grote, brother Ronald Pietig, sister Joleen Gerdes, Aunt Marie Campbell, brother in-laws Charles Gerdes, Paul Grote, Ralph Grote, Leonard Grote, Norbert Grote, Leonard Sailer, Lyle Vonnahme, sister in-laws Karma Pietig, Luella Grote, Marlita Grote, Irma Grote, Lorraine Vonnahme, and Mary Sailer.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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My sympathy to Doreen’s family! We were friends and classmates! Lots of wonderful memories!

Pat Sanders – August 17 2025 at 11:34 AM

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Doreen and I were classmates in Roselle Iowa. We had such a small glass at Holy Angels. When we were in 8th grade the girls got so tired of wearing long cotton stockings to school that the girls got together and all wore anklets one day to school!! It was anklets after that. I think maybe our class made history. Darlene Eich Timmerman

Darlene Luella Timmerman – August 17 2025 at 1:06 PM

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Rick and family, sorry to hear about your Mom, Grama, Greatgrama and Cat Lady! Sounds like she had a great life. Cuddy

Cuddy – August 17 2025 at 2:24 PM

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Rick and the entire Grote family, accept my sincere sympathy on the death of Doreen. I am not able to attend Doreen's visitation or funeral as I will be out of town please know that I have your family in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings. Bruce Hauswirth

BRUCE HAUSWIRTH – August 17 2025 at 6:44 PM

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John Stennis My deepest sympathies may his loving embrace comfort you in your time of sorrow. I will always remember her 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

John Stennis – August 18 2025 at 4:47 PM

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