Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

DeEtta Bueltel, 93, of Carroll, died Tuesday, June 3, 2014, at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be held at 11:30 a.m. Friday, June 6, 2014, at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Marcy Anderson and the St. Lawrence Choir with Jean Knobbe as cantor. Lectors will be Craig Bueltel, Donna Bueltel, and Jean Uhlenkamp. Gift Bearers will be DeEtta’s grandsons: Joshua, Joseph, Ian and Zachary Bueltel. Honorary Casket Bearers will be DeEtta’s nieces and nephews. Casket Bearers will be Joshua Bueltel, Joseph Bueltel, Ian Bueltel, Zachary Bueltel, Mark Uhlenkamp, and Bryan Houlihan. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. The St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary and the Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas will form an honor guard for the funeral mass.

Friends may call at St. Lawrence Church on Friday, after 9:30 a.m., where visitation will be held until the time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for DeEtta’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on July 24, 1920, on the family farm near Carroll, Iowa, DeEtta was the daughter of Frank and Elizabeth (Klocke) Venteicher. She attended Sts. Peter and Paul School. On January 16, 1946, DeEtta was united in marriage to Edward Bueltel at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll by Fr. Arthur Poeckes. The couple lived in Mitchell, South Dakota for one year before moving back to Carroll. DeEtta was a devoted homemaker. She enjoyed playing bridge, oil painting, and traveling. DeEtta also was very active, enjoying her time at the Carroll Recreation Center, and golfing until she was 90 years old. She was very devout to her faith, and to her parish, helping with many funeral luncheons over the years. DeEtta was a 60 year member of the St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary, Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas and St. Lawrence Catholic Church.

Left to celebrate DeEtta’s life are her children: Craig Bueltel and wife Donna of Louisville, Colo., and Mary Kay Bueltel of Greely, Colo.; her grandsons: Joshua, Joseph, Ian, and Zachary Bueltel. Also surviving are many nieces, nephews and other extended relatives.

She was preceded in death by her parents; husband Edward in 1992; four brothers: Henry, Louis, Julius, and Alvin Venteicher; and three sisters: Helena Fossing, Edna Kral, and Julia Hacker.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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We are sorry for the loss of such a wonderful mother and grandmother. We have very fond memories of your DeEtta. She was very lucky to have you take such good care of her especially after your father passed away. May she now rest in peace now that her journey on earth has been completed. Love, The Kisthards Jim, Cara, Maelyn, and Bannack.

The Kisthards – June 05 2014 at 8:34 PM

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I am very saddened to hear about DeEtta. I knew her from the rec center and Carroll congregate meals. She was a wonderful woman and I enjoyed her smile and our conversations. She will be missed. May she rest in peace.

Tracy Sturm – June 12 2014 at 5:40 PM

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The Bible says there going to be a resurrection (Acts 24:15) This mean A real Hope of being Reunited with your loved ones (john 5:28&29) God is eager to do this because he Hates Death, He views it as a enemy (1 corinthians 15: 26) the Bible can be a comfort when Loved one Dies.

Teri Morgan – June 22 2014 at 7:06 PM

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