Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Betty Neumayer, 89 of Breda, died Friday, May 1, 2015 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, May 4, 2015 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Betty’s granddaughters: Kim Wiese, Angie Davis, and Becky Tjelmeland. Gift Bearers will be Betty’s granddaughters: Beth Seidl, Jennifer Neumayer and Emily Neumayer. Eucharistic Ministers will be Betty’s granddaughter, Allison Meisheid, Betty’s son-in-law, Tom Meisheid, and Brian Davis. Casket Bearers will be Betty’s grandsons: Kevin Neumayer, Brian Neumayer, Ryan Meisheid, Brent Meisheid, Jeff Loneman, and Corey Loneman. Burial will be in St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda after 2:30 p.m. on Sunday where there will be a rosary at 3 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 5 p.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda and online condolences may be left for Betty’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on February 20, 1926 at Carroll, Iowa, Elizabeth “Betty” was the daughter of Martin “MF” and Martha (Hermsen) Van Erdewyk. She spent her entire lifetime in the Breda area and graduated from St. Bernard’s High School.

On May 5, 1947 she was united in marriage to Virgil “Buddy” Neumayer at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The couple farmed east of Breda where Betty was a devoted housewife, assisting with the farming operation and raising her family. In 1984, the couple moved to their home in Breda. In 2013, Betty moved to the Carroll community where she resided at Sunnybrook; in 2014 she became a resident at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Betty enjoyed playing cards, word games, trips to the casino, and going on drives with her husband Buddy. Her greatest joy was her family and she always enjoyed hosting family gatherings for holidays and special occasions.

Betty was a member of St. Bernard’s Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, National Catholic Order of Foresters and a former member of the Breda American Legion Auxiliary.

Betty is survived by her children: Clifford Neumayer and his wife Janet of Breda, Clyde Neumayer and his wife Christy of Breda, Nancy Meisheid and her husband Tom of Aurora, CO, JoAnn Neppl of Humboldt, and Dean Neumayer of West Des Moines; 15 grandchildren; 14 great-grandchildren; her son-in-law, Mike (Terri) Loneman of Huxley; her siblings: Mary Ann (Don) Rowe of Breda, Ruby (Frank) Rosener of Vail, Gerald (Katie) Van Erdewyk of Breda, Joyce Goetzinger of Denison, and Leo (Deb) Van Erdewyk of Underwood; as well as other relatives and many friends.

Betty was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Virgil “Buddy” Neumayer; her daughter, LuAnn Loneman; her son-in-law, Mike Neppl; and her brother in infancy, Keith Van Erdewyk.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I will never forget coming to a family wedding with Dean, spending the whole wedding weekend with Betty and Virgil and how Betty laughed so much that I made Cliff dance with me at the reception. What a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother and friend. The only solace is that she and Virgil are together again.

Joy Jacobs – May 01 2015 at 9:56 PM

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Sorry for your loss. Betty always had a smile on her face. She was a strong and caring lady to anyone that she met. I learned something new when I read the obituary, her given name was Elizabeth She will always be remembered as my strong Aunt Betty. I do remember the cool old phone downstairs on the farm, drinking Kool-aid, and her taking the time to listen to me.

Ann “Marie” – May 03 2015 at 6:10 PM

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Sorly Cliff and Clyde she was a very sweet lady. May you all rejoice in her place in heaven

Linda Fischer O’Tool Beidler – May 02 2015 at 4:22 PM

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So sorry to hear of Betty's passing. Loved visiting with her when I would see her. She was always happy to talk with you and had a good story to tell. I know she will be missed. All my thoughts and prayers.

Shannon Reising – May 04 2015 at 8:45 AM

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Dan & Tina Reese purchased the Secret Garden Basket for the family of Betty Neumayer.

Dan & Tina Reese – May 02 2015 at 12:34 AM

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