Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Tom Nees, age 60, of Mt. Carmel, died Sunday, May 24, 2015, at his home surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, May 28, 2015 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church in Mt. Carmel. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Denise Nieland, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Choir with Jake Gute as soloist. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Jayson Garner and Theresa Potthoff. Gift Bearers will be Kaeja Garner, Sophia Nees-Garner, and Aidan Nees-Gebhart. Eucharistic Minister will be Joan Wehr. Casket Bearers will be Dan Nees, Steve Nees, Joe Nees, Mike Nees, Chandler Nees-Stoelk, Teren Nees, Ty Anderson, Alec Brown, and Josh Pudenz. Private family burial will be held at a later date at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Cemetery.

Friends may call at the Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Mt. Carmel after 4 p.m. on Wednesday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the church for St. Anthony Hospice.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Tom’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on April 27, 1955 at Carroll, Iowa, Thomas Nees was the son of Kenneth and Jeanette (Baumhover) Nees. Tom attended Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Grade School and later graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School with the Class of 1973.

On July 27, 1974, he was united in marriage to Rosanne Snyder at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. Tom and Rosanne made their home near Mt. Carmel where he was engaged in grain and livestock farming with his father and his brothers. Tom had a passion for farming and could build or fix anything. He found great joy in sharing his skills and abilities with his grandchildren.
In his spare time he enjoyed fishing, hunting and morning coffees at Al’s Corner. Tom’s greatest joy was spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren. Tom was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Mt. Carmel.

Left to cherish his memory are his wife Rosanne of Mt. Carmel; his daughters Kara Nees-Garner and her husband Jayson of Clive, and Trish Nees and special friend Darren Cooper of Waukee; his grandchildren Chandler, Teren, Kaeja, Ty, Aidan, Sophia, and Dash; his father, Kenneth Nees of Mt. Carmel; his siblings: Dan (Kathy) Nees of Ankeny, Steve (Iris) Nees of Halbur, Joan (Ed) Wehr of Westphalia, Chris (Randy) Blake of Wiota, Theresa Potthoff (Jerry Green) of Pauls Valley, OK, Susan Nees (Scott Ainsworth) of Watkinsville, GA, Jill (John) Kolb of Ames, Joe (Monica) Nees of Breda, and Mike (Kim) Nees of Carroll; his brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law Terry (Mary) Snyder of Carroll, Gina (Mike) Hotaling of LaVista, NE, Renee (Dave) Brown of Shawnee, KS, Steve (Nikki) Snyder of Urbandale, and Christy Snyder of Carroll; as well as other extended relatives and many friends.

Tom was preceded in death by his mother, Jeanette Nees; his parents-in-law, Alfred and Donna Snyder; and his brothers-in-law, John Koster and Michael P. Snyder.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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From the entire Kathy Snyder family we wish to convey our deepest sympathies during this time of loss. Tom was a wonderful man and we are all glad he was a part of our lives. It is not easy to lose a husband, father, grandfather so early as we know. May the wonderful memories of Tom comfort you in the days, months and years to come. He will be an angel watching over you. Kathy Snyder Sandy Togstad Family Debbie Bednarz Family Tricia McCabe Family Dave Snyder Family Jim Snyder Family Sandy Togstad - 37 minute

Sandy Togstad – May 28 2015 at 9:23 AM

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Mike and Gina Miller purchased the Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum for the family of Tom Nees.

Mike and Gina Miller – May 26 2015 at 2:43 PM

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To Rosanne and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God walk with you through this sad time. Rick and Sue Schaefer

Sue Schaefer – May 27 2015 at 10:49 AM

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You all have our deepest sympathy!!

Darrell and Sandy Pudenz – May 27 2015 at 11:46 AM

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Our sympathy Rosanne and family. Kathy and Pat Irlbeck

Kathy Irlbeck – May 27 2015 at 1:02 PM

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