Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

John “Jack” Wafful, 64 of Carroll, died Monday, October 5, 2015 at Mercy Medical Center in Des Moines, Iowa.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, October 8, 2015 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir. Lector for the funeral mass will be Joleen Janssen. Gift Bearers will be: Lindsay Struecker, Courtney Wafful, and Maddie Wafful. Casket Bearers will be: Thad Struecker, Ron Preston, Don Irlbeck, Gary Irlbeck, Kevin Irlbeck, and Austin Irlbeck. Burial will be in Sacred Heart Cemetery in Templeton with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Wednesday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9:30 a.m. on Thursday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Jack’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on March 14, 1951 at Ft. Dodge, Iowa, John “Jack” Wafful was the son of Orvil and Grace (Michalski) Wafful. Jack was raised in Ft. Dodge and graduated from St. Edmond’s High School. Following his schooling he served in the United States Army from 1970 until his honorable discharge in 1972.

Jack was employed at Hormel in Ft. Dodge and later Hormel in Ottumwa. On May 1, 1999 Jack was united in marriage to Jan Irlbeck at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. Jack most recent employment was with the Webster County Roads and Maintenance Department where he worked until his retirement.

He enjoyed watching the history channel on television and loved socializing with people whether it be family or friends.

Jack is survived by his wife Jan Wafful of Carroll; his daughters: Courtney Wafful and significant other, Ron Preston of Ft. Dodge, and Lindsay Struecker and her husband Thad of Algona; his grandchildren: Maddie Wafful, Jacob Struecker, and Brody Struecker; his brother, Jim (Sandy) Wafful of Barnum; his mother-in-law, Ardella Irlbeck of Carroll; his brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law: Don (Denise) Irlbeck of Templeton, Joan Seddon of Templeton, Mern Irlbeck of Carroll, Gary (Shell) Irlbeck of Templeton, Kevin (Lynn) Irlbeck of Carroll and Joleen (Tony) Janssen of Glidden; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Jack was preceded in death by his parents; his father-in-law, Sylvester Irlbeck; his sister-in-law, Glenda Irlbeck; and his brothers-in-law, Dale Irlbeck and Mike Irlbeck.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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To Jan and the Irlneck Family-- I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers Kathy (Rohe) Johnson

Kathy (Rohe) johnson – October 06 2015 at 6:22 PM

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Jan, so sorry for your loss. Cherish the many good memories of your life together. God bless you and your families.

Denise Doyel – October 06 2015 at 8:50 PM

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Deepest Sympathy to Jan and his entire family.I got to know Jan and Jack when they lived in Fort Dodge.Jan was my supervisior and the last time I saw them was at a company dinner.Jack was telling funny stories and man I laughed and laughed.Thank you for all the fun memories.Again so sorry for your loss.MOLLY PEATON

Molly Peaton – October 07 2015 at 5:51 AM

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Jan and family deepest symphony. Thoughts and prayers

Joel Kanne – October 08 2015 at 11:32 AM

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Jan I wish I had the words to give you comfort at this most sorrowful time. Don Wiederhold

Don Wiederhold – October 09 2015 at 4:42 AM

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