Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bernice Heisterkamp, age 94, of Carroll died Thursday, December 24, 2020 at Accura Healthcare in Carroll.

A public Memorial Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday August 7 at St. John Paul II Parish – St. Lawrence Church. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm.

Those wishing to mail a memorial may direct it to the Bernice Heisterkamp Family C/O Sharp Funeral Home 226 W. 8th Street, Carroll, Iowa 51401.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Bernice’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Bernice, the daughter of Harvey and Emma (Nees) Freese was born on September 18, 1926 in Clara City, Minnesota. She graduated from St. Thomas High School in St. Paul, Minnesota in 1944. After graduation, the family moved to Lake City, Iowa. Bernice was employed with Northwestern Bell Telephone in Carroll.

On January 28, 1947, Bernice was united in marriage to Lyle Heisterkamp at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Carroll. The couple made their home in Carroll where Bernice was a devoted homemaker, and care giver to their daughter Joleen. In her later years Bernice was employed in the cafeteria in the Kuemper Catholic School System. Bernice enjoyed playing a multitude of card games and attending many Bingo events across the area. Bernice was a member of St. John Paul II Parish- St. Lawrence Church.

Left to celebrate Bernice’s life is her children: Richard Heisterkamp (Margene) of Carroll, Debra Kanne (Neil) of Lidderdale, Dean Heisterkamp (Kerry) of Westside, Janice Wollesen (Robert) of Edina, MN, and Douglas Heisterkamp (Venita) of Odessa, TX; her grandchildren: Amy Overmohle, Beth Schechinger, Kari Martin, Robyn Vera, Lyndsay O’Neil, Crystal Cecka, Heather Kennedy, Holly Wollesen, Ashley Blackburn, Chad Kanne, Curt Heisterkamp, Dustin Heisterkamp, Andrew Heisterkamp, and Justin Heisterkamp; 16 great-grandchildren with 1 more on the way. Also surviving are her siblings: Alice Heisterkamp of Albert Lea, MN, and Fred (Betty) Freese of Wildomar, CA; and sister-in-law Mary Lou Schultes of Carroll.

Bernice was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Lyle Heisterkamp, her daughter, Joleen Heisterkamp, her son, Dale Heisterkamp, two sons in infancy: Dennis Heisterkamp, and Gary Heisterkamp, a grandson, Ryan Kanne; her brother: Arthur Freese, her sister Ruth Cibert; brothers-in-law: Norman Heisterkamp, Edgar (Dorothy) Heisterkamp, James Heisterkamp, Joseph (Ruth) Heisterkamp, Arthur Schultes, and Delores (Leon) Jacobsen: and parents-in-law Joseph and Rose Heisterkamp.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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You loved and lost someone special to you--caring thoughts & prayers are with you. When you love with all that you have, you grieve with all that you are. Your Mom was a sweet lady. Phyllis & Vern Drees

Vern-Phyllis Drees – December 26 2020 at 8:09 PM

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our prayers are with the family at this difficult time. Prayers for peace and strength. Dave and Ann (Bernholtz) Staiert

Ann Staiert – December 27 2020 at 2:52 PM

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Deepest sympathy on the loss of such a kind lady. I always enjoyed the times I got to visit with her, especially about the old neighborhood.

Jodie Jansen – December 28 2020 at 12:42 PM

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So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, Cindy Becker

Cindy Becker – December 28 2020 at 7:30 PM

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So sorry to hear of Bernice's passing. She was such a fun and loving person. Your whole family is for that matter. Will never forget the volleyball and card games. Such fun memories to have. Love and Prayers to all. Karen n David Riesselman

Karen Riesselman – January 02 2021 at 1:41 PM

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